Here is some advice on making sure you and your friends have the most fun with a male stripper. We’ll cover a few topics on this page including when a stripper is appropriate, why you should have one, information about strippers vs. strip clubs, how to find a stripper in your area, and tips on how to approach hiring them for your hens night in Brisbane.
When is a male stripper appropriate?
If you are planning a party for a friend, you probably already know if she will want a stripper. You should also consider the other people who will be attending the party. If your friend’s mom will be there you might want to skip the naked, gyrating man meat. Some women won’t be phased at all by the presence of their moms. Other possible buzz-killing attendees could include sisters of the groom, grandmothers, nuns, married folks, prudes, conservatives, and anyone with a heart condition.
You have decided to limit the number of invitations you need to send out. Now you will still be able to see male strippers. Great, let’s continue. There are a number of great reasons to see some naked men at a bachelorette party. This will be your friend’s last night out. She will probably never again have the opportunity to see, feel, or touch a strange-yet-attractive man for the rest of her life. It is also likely that her groom will begin a slow descent into beer-guttedness as soon as the reception begins. The memory of six-pack abs and firm buns will probably last for many years. Send your friend out with a bang.
How To Find A Stripper?
The most difficult part of hiring a stripper is finding one. Here is some advice about finding and hiring a stripper. You might be surprised by some of it:
- Forget the internet: We find a general search of the internet is crowded with websites for strippers that are not in your area. It is too difficult and confusing to navigate even for internet professionals like me.
- A local search is hot: Focus local. Try Yelp or Google’s business listings. Here in the Detroit area Strippers are listed under “Entertainers: Adult”. In our metro area there are 6 different companies listed.
- Figure that if your city has more than 200,000 residents, there is probably a company near you. If you live in a smaller area try looking for Escort Services that have male escorts. Ask if they strip too. Strip clubs are usually listed under “Nightclubs” and are even more difficult to find. There are only two here, in the Detroit Metro area, and we are the 7th largest metropolitan area in the country. If you live in NY, Boston, Chicago, or LA, you might be able to find one. Ask Around – Someone will know someone who has seen a stripper recently. Find out where and when and who to call.
- Rural Customers – You have a long journey ahead. You’ll either have to travel into town or you’ll have to bribe a not-too-shy guy to take it all off. Good luck to you.
Be prepared for someone who is not prepared. If everything goes as it should, the stripper will arrive with everything he needs to put on an amazing performance. If not, have some backup options. If you can get a play list beforehand, then put that playlist on your Spotify account on your phone and bring a small Bluetooth speaker; that way you have music even if his fails. Does it sound like he is going to oil up before dancing? Invest an extra couple of bucks in a bottle of unscented massage oil, in case he forgets his.
Finally, keep in mind that stripping is a profession, not an identity. Strippers have all kinds of horror stories about inappropriate or rude behavior from customers. As you might imagine, that type of behavior does not inspire someone to give their best. Encouraging your group to be polite and follow the stripper’s rules, even while getting raunchy, is the best way to ensure you all enjoy the evening!
Hiring a stripper can be intimidating for a newbie, but it really is not any different from hiring someone to perform any other type of personal service. If you follow the tips in this tutorial, we think you will find it easier than you imagined to hire quality adult entertainment for your bachelorette party.